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Dear Parents of Distance Learner Who Checks Out,
I see you. You spent last Spring fighting. Pleading. Begging. You've bought hundreds of dollars of electronic equipment, furniture and...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jul 9, 20203 min read


My June
It has been a long, long time since I have sat down to add to this blog. And, I am thinking, my absence kinda parallels what we have all...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jun 30, 20202 min read


Racism and Protests
I thought writing a blog about George Floyd and racism and protests and our children would be easy. There is so much to say. So many...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jun 2, 20202 min read


Virtual Camps!
Virtual Camp. Ugh. I can hear the collective groan now. Summer camps are supposed to be running and jumping and field trips to the nearby...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
May 22, 20202 min read


Grief
We are grieving. Individually and collectively- as families, as cities and as a country. There is this idea that grief is a feeling that...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
May 20, 20202 min read


Summer Is Coming
I have good news and bad news for you: summer is almost here and your kids' distance-learning school year is almost at an end. This...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
May 14, 20203 min read


Distance Learning without Losing Your Mind
It was recently announced that we are doing this distance learning thing until the end of the school year. I think some teachers may have...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Apr 20, 20205 min read


Tele-therapy!
It's been a month since my last blog entry and a lot has happened. Covid-19 has necessitated some pretty significant social distancing,...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Apr 14, 20202 min read


Kids and COVID-19
COVID-19 is a Coronavirus (there are several types of Coronavirus) that is currently spreading across the world. According to the World...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Mar 12, 20203 min read


Sleep and Snacks
We all know, when our kids are very little, that maintaining naps and keeping a snack station in our diaper bag is critical to our kids'...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Mar 2, 20203 min read


My Kid Doesn't Want Therapy
This has been a subject for discussion for me lately. The scenario goes like this: a parent calls me because their child is defiant or...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Feb 19, 20203 min read


Play Therapy Week 2020
February 2nd through 8th is Play Therapy Week. The Association for Play Therapy (APT) is a national organization (to which I belong) that...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Feb 6, 20201 min read


ACEs Screening in California
A huuuuuuge research study (like 17,000 participants) was conducted in the mid-nineties in California. The researchers were trying to...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jan 24, 20203 min read


joshsbenches.com
This past weekend I went to a local park for some much-needed personal nature therapy. As I came around a corner of the nature center...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jan 10, 20202 min read


Emotions and Feelings Wheels
Many of the families with whom I work struggle with identifying feelings. Unless you were raised by a therapist 😉, chances are good that...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jan 9, 20202 min read


Happy New Year
Every year during the holiday break from school, I take some time off. I see some families, especially those who have a more difficult...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jan 7, 20201 min read


When to End Therapy
There is a whole lot of advice floating around about when you need to start therapy. It's almost like people throw out "get a therapist"...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Dec 16, 20194 min read


Do I Take Insurance?
The short answer is: no. But, the long answer is a bit more complicated and I think families who are considering work with a therapist,...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Dec 12, 20194 min read


New Facebook Group
I recently stumbled onto the factoid that most, if not all, of the kids I see are gifted or high-achieving. If they are younger, they are...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Dec 9, 20192 min read


Post-Thanksgiving Thanks
I spent the Thanksgiving week with my family. My kids were off of school and there was a big Thanksgiving dinner to be made. I did not...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Dec 3, 20191 min read
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